This morning I'd like to begin by sharing three
stories with you about people who went through
incredible adversity. See if you can identify them.
1. This child was born in Port Huron, MI, and
was estimated to have an IQ of 81. He had withdrawn
from school after three months and was considered
backward by school officials. The child enrolled
two years late due to scarlet fever and respiratory
infections, and he was going deaf. His emotional
health was poor. He was stubborn and aloof, showing
very little emotion. He liked mechanics, and he
liked to play with fire, burning down his father's
barn. He showed some manual dexterity but used
very poor grammar. However, he did want to be a
scientist and a railroad mechanic.
Who was he? Thomas Edison, reputedly the greatest
inventor of modern times.
2. By the age of 10, both of his parents had died.
He was raised reluctantly by an older brother who
resented another mouth to feed. His wife died after
13 years of marriage. Of 20 children from two marriages,
ten of them passed away while still infants. One
died in his 20's, and one was mentally deranged.
Eventually, this outstanding musician went blind
and was paralyzed with a stroke. Did this man forsake
faith in God?
Who was he? Johann Sebastian Bach, the greatest
composer of religious music.
3. He dropped out of grade school and was home
schooled. He ran a country store but went broke
and it took 19 years to pay off all his bills,
but he did pay them off. He had a law firm, but
his partner ran off and left him with debts. He
was married, but his marriage flopped. His wife
came down with mental illness and paranoia. He
had a son who was physically weak and died at a
young age. He ran for political office four times,
twice for the house and twice for the senate, and
lost all four times. Ultimately, he held office
but was despised by half the country. Satirists
and newsmen derided him on an almost daily basis.
Most audiences felt his speeches were hum-drum.
His classic speech was met with indifference.
Who was he? Abraham Lincoln.
The interesting thing about all these men is the
fact that they were all believers, they faced incredible
adversity, and they all succeeded in life. Abraham
Lincoln is known to be the greatest president up
to this time. How is it that these believers faced
down adversity and succeeded in life, and actually
became the best in their given professions.
As believers, how can we face adversity and succeed?
Rather than becoming defeated, the secret is in
this wonderful book of James penned during a period
of tremendous adversity. Peter Marshall describes
the period like this:
"They were thrown into prison and made the cell
a pulpit and the dungeon a choir. Stoned, they
rose from the dust bleeding and bruised but with
a more con-vincing testimony. Wounded with whips,
they praised God all the more. Nothing could stop
them. The Romans made human torches of believers
to light the arenas on their holidays, yet in death
these Christian martyrs made converts through their
strange preaching. Hunted and persecuted, thrown
to the lions, tortured and killed, still the numbers
who made the sign of the cross grew and grew."
How did these early Christian believers facing
adversity succeed and not become defeated? Hear
the powerful words of James, pastor of the Jerusalem
church:
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There are three things we can learn from this
text about facing adversity. One is realizing that
periods of adversity, trial and suffering are a
normal part of life. There are two words to emphasize
in that sentence: "normal" meaning it is common,
it is to be expected, it's what happens in this
life; and "life" meaning adversity does not come
from God. Verse 13 is included as a disclaimer, "When
tempted, no one should say that God is tempting
him." It's not God-it's simply life.
Jesus said that in this world you will have trouble.
Did Jesus experience trials and adversity in his
life? Did the apostles experience adversity in
their lives? Yes, all of them were martyred. Isn't
that the experience of humanity throughout history?
Of all the people that you know, is there anyone
who has not experienced adversity in their life?
It is a common experience, and it is part of living
in a fallen, imperfect world with imperfect people
and our imperfect selves. It is normal, and it
is life.
Pastor James says that "Whenever you face trials....." The
fact is that you are going to face
trials. James was an intensely strong believer.
His faith was not shaken at all by the reality
of trials. They did not cause him to deny God at
all. James knows it's not God's fault. Yet so often
God is the first person we blame when adversity
comes. None of the disciples, in experiencing adversity
far greater than we have ever experienced ourselves,
none of them lost hope and faith in God.
It is silly to blame God. Think of Jesus on the
cross. If God was really to blame for adversity,
then God had cause to be mad at himself. What we
hear from Jesus on the cross is a cry of anguish,
a feeling of being alone, but he still had faith
because he said, "Into your hands I commit my spirit."
A father took his daughter to the doctor's to
get an injection knowing the experience would be
painful as shots always are. The daughter knew
her father loved her, but he was the one who brought
her to her tormentors. Yet, with love in the father's
heart, holding his daughter, she clung to him,
receiving the painful shot. She cried, "Daddy,
Daddy, no." Yet clinging to him nonetheless. This
is a good posture for us to remember in adversity.
We should always cling to the Father because he
loves us and knows what's best for us.
One thing that trips us up when we experience
hard times is that deep down, we don't expect them
to happen. The first statement we made is, "I can't
believe this is happening to me." So often we are
caught off guard by financial down-turns and yet
common sense tells us that in the history of our
economy, there is a seven-year cycle of ups and
downs. Throughout humanity, industries have come
and gone, times change, and people need to prepare
for this.
People are crushed by the loss of loved ones.
It is okay to experience grief which is an expression
of love, but it is not okay to be destroyed. History
tells us that everyone dies. Billions of people
have lived on this earth and died, and it is something
that we need to prepare for.
Some people are confused by illness and the process
of aging and the frailty that accompanies it. Yet,
we all age. None of us ever grow younger.
What we need is a realistic expectation of life.
We need to understand the accept the Biblical view
that the world is fallen and we will experience
adversity. May God give us the grace to accept
it and to prepare ourselves to see adversity simply
as hurdles in this life that we must jump over.
Another thing that trips people up about adversity
is that we draw this parallel between life and
God. Whatever happens in life is because of God.
We ask, "Why, God, did you let this happen to me?
God, where are you? Don't you care? Aren't you
in control?" We misunderstand God's sovereignty
as him being a puppet king. He is not this at all.
He has divine oversight and sees all, but he does
not control all. He knows everything. Life is real
and dynamic. It is not determined. God's purposes
are determined, but not every moment.
If you are going to get angry and point fingers,
point at the right object, and that's life. Get
angry at life, shake it up. This isn't God's best,
this isn't his intention. Pray as the church prayed
historically, "Come, Lord Jesus." Ask God, "Lord,
what can I learn from these experiences? Give me
your strength to endure. Help me to pray your will." It
is important to pray God's will-pray for healing,
pray for restoration, pray for redemption, but
also pray for strength.
James says, "Consider it pure joy...." Now, that's
an odd phrase. Literally, this means "Fix it in
your mind that when you face adversity, you will
respond with joy." Loosely translated, this means
be happy, laugh, sing, dance. The image is of a
person determined to stay positive, to be determined
that adversity will not defeat them, and to believe
the best. Decide in your heart that you will not
be defeated, disillusioned, crushed or perplexed.
Decide in your heart that you can do all things
through Christ who strengthens you. You do not
need to fear the future because you know who holds
the future in his hands. You need to know that
God's purpose is to make you the head and not the
tail. You know that he holds the keys to hell,
death and the grave. You know that he is with you
and that he loves you. As a result, consider it
pure joy.
Joe Patino is the head coach of the Kentucky Wildcats,
one of the best college coaches of all time. He
learned the lesson about staying positive in the
midst of adversity:
"In 1987 my son Daniel had been born six months
early with congenital heart problems. He was hospitalized
for months during which time my wife Joanne spent
14-hour days with him at the hospital seven days
a week. Finally, Daniel's condition improved and
we took him home. One day in March, I talked Joanne
into taking a break and coming to New York with
me for the Big East tournament. On the bus ride,
a state trooper pulled us over and told me to make
an urgent call to the hospital. The doctor told
me that Daniel was dead.
Over the next few months, there was not much to
our marriage or our family life. We had religious
faith, but how would we ever be able to deal with
something so traumatic? How could God do this to
us? Well, I learned that God didn't do it to us-life
did. There are simply parts of life that we can't
understand. We knew we had to accept this and return
to our lives. Joanne and I changed our attitude
from pointless negativity to appreciation for the
good we had. We turned our attention to our three
sons and tried to do positive things in Daniel's
name. We must force ourselves to appreciate the
good still around us. Otherwise, the bad will ruin
our lives."
Why joy? Because in the wisdom of God, beyond
the fact that we have a God to call upon who is
watching over us, it is the only emotion that will
help us get through the adversity. Think of all
the emotions that you could experience-anger, anxiety,
depression, being stressed out, doubt, bearing
all of life's burdens on your shoulders. None of
them help you. They only deplete your energy and
pull you farther down than you were before. Only
joy will help you walk through adversity and make
you successful in spite of it.
The text talks about learning patience from adversity.
Another way to translate this would be endurance
or staying power. Patience is what the trucker
needed when he decided to drive around the barrier
to save a few minutes. Because he lacked patience,
he lost his life. Paul says that adversity brings
character, and James concludes by saying adversity,
if you allow it, will complete you and make you
mature, strong, and iron-like. How? Because adversity
is the gym of our interior selves. It is the only
way we develop as a person.
We know how to develop physically. My wife and
I have been talking about getting in shape again,
and we have been looking at the Total Gym or the
Bowflex. One thing is true about any type of exercise
equipment-the only way you can get strong and fit
is through resistance. Just as resistance is health
to our body, adversity is the gym that develops
the person's character itself. It is not popular
to say this because in our culture we have learned
that adversity is something to avoid. Even as Christians
we often try to pray away adversity in our lives.
I remember driving into Pittsburgh early one morning
to go to surgery. I got up a little later than
I intended and I'm buzzing down the highway. Why
is it that when you are most in need of some speed,
there is always someone slow in front of you? There
was no way to get around the person in front of
me. The longer I drove, the more I wanted to shout
at the person in front of me to go faster but it
didn't happen. A few miles down the road, you begin
to say, "God, you know I have to get to the hospital.
You know I have to be there for surgery. Do something!
Don't you care?" A few more miles down the road,
you fall into despair and you think, "I'm not going
to get there in time. I might as well pack my bags.
I'm in trouble now." Then after a few more miles,
you finally become humble and says things like, "God,
please. I'm begging you to remove them. Make them
turn at the next exit." But God never did because
he wanted me in that situation. At that moment,
he wanted to teach me to be patient. Somewhere
later in my life, I will need to have patience.
When we pray ourselves out of adversity, we are
praying ourselves out of God's gym. God wants to
develop some things in our life because he knows
that down the road we are going to need these things
to survive. Don't so quickly pray yourself out
of adversity. It may be God's workshop to build
into you something that you will need later on.
Larry King hosted Joni Erickson Tada, who I think
more than any of us has experienced adversity in
her life. Larry asked her where was God in the
events of September 11. Here's her response:
"Where was God? That's a question I can identify
with. Like I told my friend Steve at the time of
my diving accident when I broke my neck, I felt
that God had turned his back on me. I was only
17 years old and I imagined that God had become
distracted by the prayers of people with cancer,
diabetes or divorce. Where in the world was she?
After 35 years living as a quadriplegic, I learned
that God permits what he hates in order to accomplish
those things that he loves. If evil men perpetuate
evil crimes, God admits this under restraint and
channels it in such a way as to promote his good
and his gospel. Lamentations 3: 21-23 expresses
this well:
"This I call to mind and therefore I have hope:
Through the Lord's mercies, we are not consumed
Because his compassions fail not. They are new
every
Morning. Great is his faithfulness."
Sometimes the reasons for what he allows are hidden
from our sight, but what we do know is that he
loves to redeem and reclaim and rescue and save
those who turn to him in need. You see, I need
him now more than I did the day of my accident,
and maybe that's not such a bad thing."
Don't short-cut God when you experience adversity.
Ask him, "Lord, what do you want to teach me?" Use
it as an opportunity to grow. Do as Charles
Darrow and his wife did who themselves suffered
tremendous adversity. They accepted adversity as
part of life and refused to allow it to steal their
joy. They worked through it, and God helped them.
They learned through this situation, and they kept
laughing.
Back in 1932 was out of a job and broke, and his
wife was expecting a baby. Although he was a heating
engineer, there were no jobs available and Darrow
and his wife were just barely subsisting on the
few odd jobs he could get as a handyman. Things
were bleak. Fate didn't reckon with the courage
of this man and his wife, however. They laughed
at it, literally. In the evenings, to take their
minds off their troubles, they made a little game
in which they could pretend they were millionaires,
recalling pleasant vacations in nearby Atlantic
City. They reconstructed the area adjoining the
boardwalk. Darrow carved hotels and houses out
of small pieces of wood, and they called the game
Monopoly. Three years later, in 1935 the game was
marketed by Parker Brothers, and Darrow and his
wife became millionaires because they allowed adversity
to make them instead of break them.
When you face adversity, are you going to allow
it to break you or make you? It's your choice.
Let's pray.