THE FAMILY TREASURY
Our
friend searched the better part of Dublin on foot
for hours before he finally found us. We were lost,
we were late, we were in a foreign country, our
cell phones didn't work, we had the wrong kind
of currency, and hadn't a friend in the world except
for Dr. Stephen Bridgett. Big Dan and I meandered
aimlessly through the city streets with Daniel,
Christiana and Angelica-all three of them complaining
about the cold, tired of walking and hungry. To
make matters worse, the sky threatened rain and
my headache was erupting into a full-blown migraine.
I'm not exaggerating for dramatic effect, this
was our situation.
We thought for certain Stephen would've given
up on us since we were more than four hours late.
Nevertheless, we needed a friend. We hadn't even
dared to hope we'd get one. As it turns out, Stephen's
pursuit of us was relentless and tenacious. He
had never given up the search for us.
How can I adequately describe the rejoicing when
he found us? To see our friend standing there..in
Dublin, and the joy, relief and wonder on his
face when he saw us. Restaurant workers who he
had told to look out for us smiled and congratulated
him on finding his friends. The curators at the
Trinity College Museum let Stephen take us in to
see the book of Kells (the world famous ancient
illustrated Bible) free of charge to celebrate
the finding of his lost friends. (They were also
on the lookout for us) It seemed throughout the
city of Dublin , people were saying "Glad you found
your friends!"
Being
the Lost Lamb
What an example of the parable about the lost
coin or the lost lamb. Until that day, I thought
those Bible stories were strictly metaphor. Now
I know first-hand that the Spirit of the Lord moves
and directs His followers, God is relentless and
tenacious in His pursuit of us, and can and will
find us and take care of us when we are lost and
helpless.
INTO THE FAMILY
In his rich baritone voice, Douglas Gresham, stepson
of C.S. Lewis, read the final chapter of "The Last
Battle" to Daniel and Christiana on the morning
we returned to the States. Merrie and Douglas
Gresham welcomed us into their home, gave us run
of the house, fed us, and shared their laundry
room, phones, computers, gardens, maps, books,
electricity and time. Merrie made lunch and dinner
for our family every day-for an entire week. Despite
my desire not to be a burden, she and Deborah Brinson
set the table, cleaned up spills, washed dishes,
did the grocery shopping, kept the children entertained
(without TV mind you) and more. We were like long
awaited relatives, like a beloved part of the family.
The Greshams observed our parenting styles, our
relationships with God and with one another, got
to know our kids and shared their wisdom with us,
all while covering us in prayer. Merrie and Douglas
later told me the reason they welcomed us into
their home and into their lives. They sensed the
Lord calling them to....for whatever reason, the
Lord laid it on their hearts to mentor us, show
us hospitality, pray for us, and let us experience
a measure of the love and tender care of Christ.
The Treasure Trove
It
moves me to tears every time I think about God's
power and love tangibly reaching out to find
and love me and my family like that.
- Not as an academic exercise,
- Not as a learning experience,
- Not as a reward or performance incentive,
- But a LOVING experience.
Stephen and the Greshams gave us a tour of a portion
of our inheritance in Christ I never even knew
existed. God's tender mercies poured out, His transforming
power, His relentless pursuit crossing cultures,
continents, oceans
-even the passage of time is no barrier to His
love. And I know I've only seen a glimpse of the
richness and depth of the love of God. It's already
far bigger than my mind can fathom.
Amazing Love
Extravagant, unwavering, relentless, unconditional love like this is difficult
for me to embrace or take in. Like most of us, I've grown accustomed to rewards
and penalties based upon my output. In this case, it would be natural to expect
God's approval based upon: the number of people treated kindly, giving to the
needy, or even the number of commandments kept, etc.
But what on earth could prepare a soul for Jesus
Christ's, all consuming, expressive, action-oriented
and tangible love?
Walking by Faith
The
roads you'll travel are completely cloaked in the
mystery called the future. The very act of combining
motherhood with a career keeps you walking by faith,
not by sight. When it comes to the future, none
of us can see a thing. We have no gift of foresight.
In fact, even in the here and now we only see God's
plan dimly.
Every earthly sense beckons "Follow the path of
least resistance, live in pursuit of self-pleasure." Yet
the simple act of faith, checking with God in prayer,
loving others as you love yourself, reading God's
word and seeking to please the Lord reaches beyond
this world, ascending to heavens bringing joy to
the Father, touching the very heart of God..
Let it touch your heart to know the Lord loves
you. Yes, I'm talking about you. Experiencing
God's love is not something reserved for a select
few. The family inheritance and access to the family
treasures are as much yours as they are mine. Jesus
seeks and saves the lost, heals the brokenhearted,
gives rest to the weary and places the lonely in
families.
You know, if you let God open your eyes, you begin
to see Him expanding the scope of your everyday
life: Working at your job, raising your children,
being a faithful friend.
Healing the Brokenhearted
One
of the things that strikes me about our Savior
is that His love does not increase and decrease
based on how hard you work for Him, or how much
you praise Him or the quantity and quality of the
good deeds you perform. He doesn't just forgive
your sins, save you and then leave you to your
own devices.
No, this is the Savior who actually saves you!
Gets you out of the fix you've gotten into due
to sin, saves your soul, grants you eternal life,
and still there's more..He sets about healing,
and completely restoring you, inside and out. He
cares deeply about the condition of your heart
and mind, and He has the power to make things right
in you. Even after you enter into the family of
God by placing your faith and trust in Him, you
still exercise your free will. Make no mistake
about it, you're no robot, you retain the ability
to refuse to let the Lord work in areas of your
life.
I know you have a broken heart.
Any amount of time spent on this earth will break
your heart. And a broken heart can't carry love
any better than a broken vase could carry water.
God Himself is intent on healing your broken heart.
It is the only way you can fully receive His outpouring
of love for you.
This
is not a religion, it is a relationship.
My advice is this: Choose to let Jesus into your
whole heart, ask Him to heal you where you are
broken, and then be amazed by the power of the
Holy Spirit to transform.
He has so much love and so many gifts to pour
out into your heart. But as long as your heart
remains broken, the capacity to accept or give
love is limited. Walls of defense put up to protect
your feelings from being hurt actually imprison
you. By faith, make the choice to have The Lord
as your protector, ask Him to tear down your self-made
protective walls and ask Him to be your Fortress
and Strength. The cracks and fissures in a broken
heart from the hammer-blows of life need His miraculous
healing touch. When you try to heal it yourself,
you will only grow calluses..making a hard-hearted
person out of you. And a hard-hearted person has
a difficult time loving others or feeling loved.
God has a richer, better plan for you. You have
a great destiny. He has plans to give you a future,
to prosper you and not harm you.
Stop.
Be still.
Be silent.
And know that He is God.
Seek His face.
Talk to Him.
Listen to Him.
Abide with Him.
This is a relationship like no other.
Let Jesus' love break down the walls around you.
Give Him your heart. All of it.
It isn't about what you can do for Him..It's about
what He can to do for you. He laid it on my heart
to tell you that.
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